Why do you love your country?

Please don’t wait until some mighty aliens come to dominate our whole world to realize that we are one humanity, one world.

For the sake of ease I have addressed this article to Indians. But it is meant equally for all the countries of the world.

I am an advocate of universal unity. For me, there’s only one country to love; and that’s this world. I don’t see any sense in people playing your-country-my-country game anymore. I don’t have any problem with your loving what you call your country but it’s your narrow focus that’s troubling me. If things were in my hands I would produce not citizens of the nation but citizens of the world. Quite a many people around me are matured to say we are Indians first and then of Gujarat (one of the states in India) but a very few I see matured enough to say we are of the world first and then Indians. This is the difference between citizens of the nation and citizens of the world.

As I have expressed in my article What nationality and religion are you?, mother Nature, who has created the world, has not drawn lines on the planet, then why have humans drawn lines on the maps and divided the world into pieces! Why the rivalry and wars! I would go so far as to say that unless the whole humanity is mad nations can not be!

As I see people loving and taking pride in the little pieces of lands which they call their country it makes me think what they really mean by country and what could be the reason they happen to love one piece of land with borders drawn around it more than the other same pieces of lands.

If you dare to think rationally then there are batter reasons for being citizens of the world than there are for being country-focused the way you are. In fact, all the reasons you’ve got for loving your country are rather no-reasons. You are just brainwashed into loving this phony entity called country which is actually nothing else but a system of politics.

Imagine what would build into the child’s mind who is made to recite songs like “Sare jahan se achcha hindustan hamara” (meaning, our India is the best in the world) at the age when he is not even capable of gauging how big the world is, let aside experiencing the world. And then this piece of shit every Indian child is made to say every morning in school –

(It’s called Indian National Pledge)

India is my country and all Indians are my brothers and sisters.
I love my country and I am proud of its rich and varied heritage.
I shall always strive to be worthy of it.
I shall give my parents, teachers and all elders, respect, and treat everyone with courtesy.
To my country and my people, I pledge my devotion.
In their well being and prosperity alone, lies my happiness.

Pardon my language but it sounds utterly irrational and boils my blood to see it; because this psychological treatment (called brainwashing) is not much different from that given to children for making terrorists of them.

It’s an appeal to every country. Infuse in children’s mind the truth, which is: One humanity, one world. Write songs about the unified world; write “the world anthem”, and replace everything focusing on the country with those focusing on the world. I bet if you give up your narrow attitude and teach your children to love the world instead of loving the country then no one can stop the world from becoming a peaceful place. Remember, loving the world doesn’t mean being apathetic towards one’s surroundings. It’s just about assuming right perspective which is much needed in these times.

Today I want to give you good reasons to shift your focus from “the country” to “the world”; to be the citizen of the world. First we will see what country actually is (not what you are brainwashed into thinking), and why you happen to love your country –

A country is a political system with which your life is woven since you are born within the boundaries of the system. And you love your country first because you were brainwashed into doing so and then continue to love it after growing up also because your economic, social (and whatever other) interests are connected with this system and are being governed by it. There is no other meaning of a country and no other reason why you love it.

Now I will take up all the major reasons I could find why people say they love their country and explain how they are irrational, and thereby give you better reasons to shift your focus onto loving the world.

Philosophy and thoughts:

You might say you love India for you like Indian philosophy and thoughts.

Listen, philosophy and thoughts have everything to do with persons, not with the piece of land called India. Philosophy and thoughts have come out of some peoples’ mind and not erupted from the piece of land concerned. In this case yours is like when you admire the thoughts of Ayn Rand you will say “I admire Ayn Rand.” And when you admire the thoughts of Vivekananda you will attach Vivekananda with India and say “I love India for it has given us Vivekananda." If you admire philosophy and thoughts in this way then you must give each and every land its due love.

You know, philosophy and thoughts don’t have boundaries. Great values are brought about by great people, and great people are great not because they were born on a particular land. They would be great wherever they take birth. Thoughts have nothing to do with what’s called county. It’s a mistake to think they've anything to do with a piece of land.

Own place:

You might say you love India because it’s your own place.

Okay. It’s natural for one to develop some attachment with one’s own place. I see. It’s like you love your house more than the other houses even if yours is smaller (or dirtier) compared to the others.

But don’t you see there’s a huge difference between your house which you have lived in for quite a while and know every corner of, and a country of which you have probably not even seen more than 50% part. I don’t know how many parts of what you call your country you have been to. I conducted a little survey by asking 20 random people I knew how much of India they have seen. 15 out of 20 said they’ve not been to more than 4 states and only one person had been to 6 states of India. India has 28 states as of today if I am right. And besides “having been to” some state doesn’t necessarily mean seeing whole of the place! That means, for the majority of people in India most of the country is “unseen”. In such a case what to understand of their love for their country? Because when they say they love their country they suggest that they love a country of which most part is as remote to them as US or China. Could it be called “blind love”?

Culture:

You might say you love India because of its culture.

I will tell you what culture is. Culture is “values and knowledge” shared by a group of people. In a sense, every individual carries in himself culture which may be different from that carried by the other. As people deal with each other in routine and be interdependent their “individual values and knowledge” have to form into “collective values and knowledge” to create a larger culture which is common for a group. Look at India. India is called the land of many cultures. Almost all of its states have their own culture. But as you can see collectively it’s called Indian culture. Why? It’s because today these people are not living independently. They are interdependent and they have to be so in a cooperative way. They are formed into a larger group called India. Whenever such merger of people into a larger group takes place the cultures have to take up a larger form to maintain smooth functioning. This is the reason all these cultures are collectively called Indian culture.

Belonging to one state of India what you really are aware of is the culture of that state. It’s very unlikely that you would know the cultures of the other states. So, actually what you love is the culture of your state. But still you say you love Indian culture and thereby you are covering all the unknown cultures too which fall within the political boundary of what is called India. This is precisely the reason national unity is maintained. And that’s certainly a good thing.

Now further expand your perspective. Today you see that the countries are not living independently, too. The whole world is interdependent. In that case don’t you think it calls for further forming and acceptance of larger culture which would be called “the world's culture”? For how long will you hold this narrow perspective by which you see Indian culture as more important than the world's culture? The human culture? Understand that by accepting higher importance of the human culture your country’s cultures won't cease to exist. But then there won’t be “your culture” and “my culture”. Everything will be “our culture”. The world's culture.

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Now consider this:

Terrorist attacks in Kashmir agitate you even though Kashmir is far, far away from your place. You would say that’s because it’s a part of India, your country. How about bomb blasts in Pakistan? Do you feel anything about it? You would say it’s not our concern. Right. Suppose if tomorrow Pakistan and India again become one country as they were before then would that make you happy? Yeah! Suppose then if Taliban spreads terror in Karachi (a city in Pakistan now) would you feel concerned? To whomever I have asked this has said: Yes, because it would be a part of our country then.

This makes it clear that not the philosophy and thoughts, nor the feeling of “own place”, nor the culture… what you actually love is a political system called India because your interests are governed by it; and that’s the reason your love never goes beyond the boundaries of the system. When the boundaries of the political system you are born in expand, so will your love. What sort of love is that?

The only people who are benefiting from the existence of different countries are politicians. Where politics is more important than truth any hope for peace is futile.

Please don’t wait until some mighty aliens come to dominate our whole world to realize that we are one humanity, one world.

28 Comment(s):

Dhanya said...

Wow! Really brutal this one! Especially what you said about the pledge! Really brave, man...

Harun Shaikh said...

I think the one reason for this political divide lies in Insecurity - people fear not the aliens from space but the internal aliens on the earth.

love for the country is necessary in order to remain free in the world. but when love for the world pervades the love for country the world will be better a place.

Everyone's ought to love their country (piece of land) but in doing so they should not forget that there are other people outside the boundaries of their country they should embrace them and their culture.

Eventually the purpose is Peace and co-operation among the countries.

great thought!!!

thanks

Tulika Verma said...

A very candid and well-articulated depiction of something i have been thinking about for a long time but never found the right enough words to portray....
i agree with each word...

p.s.
you might wish to read and comment on..
http://deliration.blogspot.com/2009/07/perception.html

ηανєєη said...

one world .... then we would have nothing to fight for .... humans are beasts by natures u can't suppress that no matter how hard u try .... so i say ... NO CHANCE

Neuzinha-1 said...

Eu penso que Todos somos ligados pela mesma Energia, e que não é um pedaço de terra que nos torna melhores, sim temos diferenças , mas temos incultidos em nós um sentimento que é Universal sem fronteiras, que nos torna iguais. O Amor, ele nos liga, e nos faz ver o que as vezes não podemos enxergar.
I think we are all connected by the same energy and that is not a piece of land that makes us better, but we have differences, but we have unlearned in us a feeling that Universal is without borders, which makes us equal. Love, it connects us and makes us see that sometimes we can not see. I loved all his words.

PoisonPen said...

Seen from space, national borders are invisible. "Nations" are social constructs, shared psychotic delusions. Being proud of one's country is slightly more ridiculous than being proud of one's skin colour, or one's spoken language. Only the very stupid believe in countries, and they probably deserve the resulting oppression they create.

I recognize no nationality except "Earthling." The willingness to accept nationalist stupidity knows no political boundaries; leftists who yammer about the glory of Palestine are no morally superior than the rightwingnuts who blather about supporting Israel. I support neither Israel nor Palestine, I support the people who struggle against tyranny and oppression regardless of their geographical locus, religion, creed, language, or skin tone.

End the hate, smash the State.

Juan said...

I think the world moves towards integration, integration that begins in the soul of people, and then world must to break down economic barriers are the main prevailing today, take the case of the European Union, which has been step by step and still some way to go, I love my country for my roots, if a people do not love your roots has no future, there must be a past to project into the future, if the integration has not been done previously by the community, now with globalization is coming.

Baroness said...

You are very enlightened. Keep spreading the word.

dragonfly said...

It cannot be said better! Here in America it is the very same.

Fahirul said...

In your views, then, i can say that i do not love my country. i do not favour the political powers that be nor do i care. it is the same thing anywhere, everywhere. but i have that feeling of the need to defend my home. so in accordance to your write up, which is very much enlightening as it is entertaining, my statement would be that i love my home, n i'd defend it with all my might. J'ai Hind to you. :)

1only said...

Well, you are looking at it from a non-religious and unrealistic view. You say that mother earth has created this world, however, most do not believe that. I do believe that people are different. There are people who want to kill me and everyone in my country because we do not believe in their religion or way of life. This is the way it is, even in nature, except their reasoning is for survival, ours is for righteousnous). Since we have walked this earth, we have done this. If we once lived harmonious, and then began to not get along, then I could understand where you were coming from. It isn't right for us to lose our individualism and connect ourselves to the earth. I don't like that others hate what I believe, but it doesn't upset me that there are people who disagree. I find it to be justifying. I find it to be balanced. Once you find your purpose, then the rest doesn't matter so much, and you won't worry about everyone getting along. Because, we are to be good to each other, but we do not need to be accountable for each other...and that's the bottom line. That isn't to say that we are not meant to help. What I mean is that we are all created to be completely different. The unity comes within the spirit of God, we will be unified once we have arrived to His kingdom because we have all arrived for the same reason. But, if you do not believe in Him, then you will
find yourself searching for something to fill the void...and you will be confused...and ultimately lost.

Amanda said...

I'm not Indian, but I don't think your article is specific to your country. And it's very interesting.

I don't think religion is part of the answer, though. Sadly, it's all to often part of the problem.

mesjay said...

You have really hit it here. 'How about bomb blasts in Pakistan? Do you feel anything about it?'--Yes i do.

Elizabeth said...

Wonderful article Darshan! I am in total agreement that we need to consider all of humanity as our "country". I have sent this link on to all of my non-SU friends.

LEO said...

"Terrorist attacks in Kashmir agitate you even though Kashmir is far........"
i liked that paragraph a lot. it is a heart touching one.
GOOD WORK, KEEP SPREADING YOUR THOUGHTS :)

mgeek said...

Patriotism is so selfish these days :-(

hemarli said...

Interesting thoughts. I have lived in many different countries in my life so I don't belong anywhere but I belong in me and all of you.

Debra Ulrich said...

I love the World, it's atmospheres and oceans, and I and wonder if there will ever be a World flag that represents ALL of us.
This article speaks as if I am saying these words myself, and I commend Darshan for writing it and believing it!
May peace prevail on Earth, and may each one of us (humans) be calm, at peace and (feel) safe.

WordstobeWordy said...

Very well said. It is important to consider yourself part of the global environment or experience. I do have love for my country, but I have love for Earth as a whole. Everyone suffers if we continue to operate as if nothing is connected, as if our actions only affect ourselves. We are not islands amongst ourselves, and it is up to us to decide if the impact we have on other people and the land is negative or positive.

iamandicip said...

You made a good point here. Patriotism is outdated, and separates people. But that is exactly what our governments want, to keep us separated. If everybody considers all the people in the world as their brothers and sisters, there wouldn't be any borders or wars.

Anonymous said...

Umm. Maybe in the cacophony of support, I disagree.

The answer to your question lies in the first paragraph of your article - maturity. It isn't so much as political maturity but a more social and psychological maturity. The human mind can comprehend only so much when it comes to large numbers. The world and its 6 billion people - not many people can get their heads around that. You think you do, but you don't. To your point you don't know their culture, your don't know their desires, their ambitions, their problems. So what does one do, to get a smaller number to deal with - a country. Now that's easier - it comes with a neat little package politically. Country having economic problems, blame the minister in charge. Country having security issues, call something called an army. Our affiliation for a country is as much driven by everything else as a need to just simplify our understanding of the world. A nation state allows us to simplify the world into distinct entities and assign individual responsibility that allows us to move on. Even with that, no one even knows how many countries there are - is it cause you don't care? Maybe, but more importantly we don't have the bandwidth to absorb such detail. We are not psychologically mature enough.

And what is wrong with loving India? about a billion people - 1/6th of all humanity. If we could care enough for that much of mankind, oh we would be peachy - but we really cannot. Your example of state travel proves that. So what do you really care for, your own state - reducing the entire country to a distinct set of entities that you can wrap your brain around. Unless you have family living in a different state, that is no more than a word to you.

Do you really know your state? No you don't - cause, there you go again, too many people. You can repeat this as long as you like. At the end, what is boils down to is the maturity of the human brain and psyche to comprehend vastness. You cannot wake up in the morning and drive your self to do something trivial - draft a memo, write a piece of code, ship a box, whatever - if all you cared about was the well being and comfort of the 6 billion inhabitants on the plant. It is just too big - it'll blow your mind.

A nation state is a inevitable as the human psyche. Keeping aside all the other economic, political, security and cultural considerations alone. No one can comprehend the world in any meaningful way. As long as you put labels to large chunks of it - you might as well call it a nation. And while your at it, you might as well love the one you are in.

Anonymous said...

Why do i love my country, i guess there is no real explanation for it except that it is your countries official that will negotiate your release from other countries, it is your country that will pay you social security, it is your country that will provide police, healthcare, and all other services.

Asking why people love their countries is like asking why people love their fathers and mothers. My country provides for me and I provide for it. It is a beautiful symbiosis where we both depend on each other.

आदित्य प्रताप वन्देमातरम said...

Wake up! Stop living in a fool's paradise. Please come up with something new. The concept of One World was propounded thousands of years ago in the saying "Vasudhaiva Kutumbakam". Your write up is a rehash of this beautiful phrase. Besides hurting the feelings of thousands who take the "pledge" every day, what purpose your article has served? If you can't believe in the "phony entity called country" then so be it. That's your headache. Please don't try to impose it on others.
Whew! some philosopher!

Anonymous said...

I think it is natural to be more attached to and identify with smaller entities (of people). As someone else commented, it is about Bandwidth.

Also, practically speaking, we're not perfect, and it is obvious to love in degrees. A life is a life, yet the death of a random person does not hurt as much as a death in one's own family.

A catastrophe in another country does not evoke as much emotion as it does when it occurs at home.

My theory is that there is also an element of fear involved. If a bomb explodes halfway across the world, its just a tragic event. If it explodes in a neighboring city, perhaps my home could be next?

Ketan said...

Hi!

I read this as well as the linked article. And I must say, I agree with you totally, especially in what all you point out in this particular post.

There are other reasons, too according to me, which are responsible for this kind of 'communalism'. I'd done a post by the same name (click).

Also, I had tried to come up with somewhat different solution to the problem. You might find the comments there, too interesting, that is, if you find time. :)

Congratulations for writing such an excellent article!

TC.

Happy Kitten said...

Please tell me why a child learns to love his/her Mother first and then the others?

How do you teach a new born to love others if the child does not learn love from his mother?

How do you teach a child to trust others if this trust is not first learned from his parents?

I hope this answers your question on countries and world...

If one has learned to be a good citizen in one's own country then naturally he becomes a good global citizen too. I do not think we can have one without the other. This world is such...

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graywave said...

What आदित्य प्रताप वन्देमातरम says is true, of course. What you are saying has been said many times before, in many different ways. But it is something that cannot be said often enough. It is something that should be repeated over and over until people start to listen and think and understand why it is such a "beautiful phrase".

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