October 18, 2009

Can You Freely Talk About Sex?

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In my previous article What Counts: Outer Looks or Inner Beauty I talked about sex for the first time on this blog and as was expected I received more unfriendly reviews than friendly ones. Some friends called me “pervert”. Some removed me from their friend-list in a rather insulting way. However, on the whole, it’s been amusing. I would like to share one review that conferred on me yet another insight (which makes me write this article). Here’s what this person says –

You have now raised a question in my mind about your IQ with this write up. Perhaps removing your hands from your pockets will improve your philosophy.

Big applause for this!

Now, since I may talk a lot about sex in future on this blog I thought it extremely imperative to give my sensitive readers some growing-up-pills. So here I am, again talking about sex.

First of all, perverts are not those who talk about sex as freely as they talk about anything else. Real perverts are those who are "shaken" (agitated) by the sight of the word SEX! Perhaps all they know about sex is jerking off and fucking. They can't understand sex any better.

I see more than half of the miseries of human beings (especially, the youngsters) are directly or indirectly connected with sex. That certainly makes sex a very important issue and necessitates me to think about it to find out why sex governs people’s thinking and in what ways it’s creating problems in their living.

And why, it does not stir you when one talks about love, nature, science, or anything else. What’s so powerful about sex that’s so moving you?

Is sex an ugly thing? The whole world exists because of sex. Sex is present in every living thing. Butterflies are colorful because of sex. Flowers are fragrant because of sex. Birds sing because of sex. All these beautiful things exist so that sex can take place and the world continues. Sex is such a common thing that’s prevalent in every bit of life on the planet. If you can not talk freely about the commonest thing as sex then there’s certainly something wrong in your mind.

This also calls to mind how some people oppose even giving sex education to children in schools. These morons are real perverts. They believe sex has extraordinary powers that will badly influence minds and disrupt “smooth” functioning of the world if it’s talked about in classrooms. Thus, they are preventing sex to come as a commonplace thing to people which it actually is. If looking at the word SEX all they see is tits and balls then it’s their problem!

You can talk about gruesome things as murder, world wars, nuclear weapons, alright; but talking about sex is pervert!? Start thinking better than bullshit, folks!

Remember, just as every movie which shows nude love-making is not porn, every piece of writing which talks about sex is not a product of pervert mind.

Grow up!



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17 Comment(s):

  1. Gr8 post man.... i love the way you have pen-downed the beauty of sex and the worlds existence... i loved the way u ended it...

    "Remember, just as every movie which shows nude love-making is not porn, every piece of writing which talks about sex is not a product of pervert mind."

    "can i borrow it" lol :P

    Dont u worry i wont remove you from my frns list.. u will be followed by me... n ya dat poem was mine... thx 4 da comment...
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  2. I totally agree with you on this one... If one has the courage to discuss sex openly, others cannot typecast his as a pervert...Unfortunately, we havent matured as a society as yet to talk freely on such topics, which is very sad...
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  3. There are at least three meanings that can be associated with the word “SEX”

    1. The property or quality by which organisms are classified as female or male on the basis of their reproductive organs and functions. Either of the two divisions, designated female and male, of this classify gender.
    2. The sexual urge or instinct as it manifests itself in behavior.
    3. Sexual intercourse.

    Sex education might be required at schools, for young and naïve minds. The objective of this is to answer and satisfy curiosities associated with growing up physically.

    Discussions about this, from psychological view point relates to values and self image of a person. Sex as instinct and act has a private connotation as it involves melting up of ego and pretext of every possible form.

    I personally see no reason to discuss intimate topics with unknown audience on an open forum. I don't think that there is anything wrong with people’s mind if they don’t want to converse about it nor do I subscribe to view that those who do are essentially perverts (No sarcasm or offence intended).
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  4. "Remember, just as every movie which shows nude love-making is not porn, every piece of writing which talks about sex is not a product of pervert mind."

    rightly said ...
    hard to believe people removed u from frnd list :O
    u explained your point pretty well in the last post
    anyways ..... world needs to grow up ....we all know it yet we are not willing to accept
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  5. "Remember, just as every movie which shows nude love-making is not porn, every piece of writing which talks about sex is not a product of pervert mind.".....BEST saying!!!!!!
    i agree wid u dude...PERVERTS are those who cant accept what you have written down here..great writing...keep it up...!!
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  6. Given the society I have been brough up in, all I can say is I do not disagree with you.
    Your writeups did pinch at places, though these are the things I too have read thought and understood, not once. But I feel safe upto this point only. You are right and I dont disagree with you.
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  7. Great post Darshan! Yeah, people should learn to grow up and face such topics without feeling embarrassed or ashamed of them.
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  8. i absolutely agree with u on this!
    GROW UP is the word for such people, seriously!

    people tend to misinterpret the word 'sex'. people have totally messed up opinions about sex.

    and when u talk about it openly ..its like .."omg! u just said the S word"
    crazy.
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  9. absolutely dude, agree with u.. i had the same prob, i talked a lot of sex on my blogs with lot of gaalis, but now i have a set of readers who understand things,
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  10. Actually the problem is not with "humanity" as a whole...but mostly only in places like our country. Because, (and I am sorry to say) we are a nation of hypocrites. We like to watch soft-porn on our bollywood movies, but those same actresses don't like to talk about sex on talk-shows.

    The way I see it, the biggest problem with sex is, it is so much under wraps (again, mostly only in countries like ours) that curiosity does more harm than it would if things were explained out.
    Having said that, I'm not sure though if formal "sex education" is correct. I believe it should first be the parents who tell their children what this is all about.
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  11. Bold writings! shall come back later.
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  12. @darshan
    well said!
    i completely agree wid ur views!

    keep it up!
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  13. hey bro..
    loved ur post...very beautifully written..
    u have one more follower now..do visit my blog too and render ur feedback..will look forward to that..
    cheers..keep bloggin!!!
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  14. I appreciate the way u write,so subtle n pure.. :) totaly agree with u..ppl complicate things to talk about n then complain about them not being simple!
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  15. actually i feel jealous of your thinking!
    great post :)
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  16. hehehe.. well said. :)
    I concur :)
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  17. yes the reason is most people feel inept when it comes to sex.when they talk about u find out how little they really know. people who really talk about sex really enjoy it or want to enjoy it better.
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